Moms friend and companion Bob passed last night. He has been ill for a long while now and they had to hospitalized him with pneumonia due to the lung problems (I think it was cancer but he never would say)
She called last night at 9:30 to say he was gone, he had been upbeat even after the doctor told them he had days left. They where supposed to go over the arrangements he wanted today.
For 28 years he helped me teaching me the skills that help me fix things without calling a service person
I am worried about the stress on my mom, the doctor postponed her knee surgery after the stress test. And poor little Ollie the dog of unknown parents, she adored that man I am hoping i can sneak her to say goodbye.
Pray this and my siblings don't push my mom too far. :candle::candle:
10-12-2020, 06:59 AM
Prayers for strength to get through this difficult time.
10-12-2020, 07:36 AM
Hugs to all... and take some mindful deep breaths before responding to any suggestions... this will show by example that the moment - even if painful - can be survived, recognized and traversed.
10-12-2020, 07:54 AM
Lu Ci and Ri Ki
I am so sorry for your loss. I will be praying for comfort and strength for your Mom.
10-12-2020, 08:07 AM
tall grass pugs
the loss will be as much as she can bear-----be sure she pays her bills in a timely fashion, buys and eats food, and doesn't shut herself away---so glad she has you to to whom she can turn
10-12-2020, 08:45 AM
Tuck and Ag's Mom
I am sorry for your loss. Sending positive thoughts that all will go well and you’ll be able to help your Mom through this time.
10-12-2020, 08:50 AM
I am sorry for your loss. I know he must have been more to you than just a building skills teacher . Everything is so uncertain on our life's on earth but one thing is sure he will be welcomed with open arms in heaven.
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10-12-2020, 09:38 AM
Sending thoughts of strength to you mom......Seeing her getting through this and surprising you!
10-12-2020, 02:11 PM
Aww so sorry to see this post. I hope she is okay.